Episode 36: Setting and Dissolving Boundaries
““You are not saying no, you are saying yes to something else.”
-Isabel Keoseyan
Episode Summary
Boundaries are a fascinating subject because according to the Vedas, they don’t really exist. When we want to manifest, boundaries are created, when we want to unify, boundaries are dissolved. What that looks like in our own lives is setting healthy personal boundaries while at the same time dissolving all boundaries in meditation as well as witnessing the dissolving of boundaries between civilizations, races and genders.
In this episode, Isabel and Kristen explore this very nuanced topic while giving concrete advice on how to master the creation and dissolution of boundaries in your own life.
Highlights
1.25 Soma Bandits
3.00 Setting boundaries to actually help others
3.40 “Boundaries are always important, sometimes we want to create them, sometimes we want to dissolve them.” Kristen
4.00 Women and boundaries – a theme in feminine consciousness of the feminine being invaded of boundaries being ignored.
5.28 Myth of Ganesh being created
7.21 Protecting yourself from yourself – realizing we CAN have boundaries
14:00 “When you actually set boundaries it´s like that respect you have for yourself for setting them gets reflected back.” Kristen
15.00 In meditation we obliterate boundaries
18.00 “The difference is in the direction of manifestation, if you want to go that way, direction of diversity, manifestation it´s is more and more boundaries. And if you want to move towards unity you want to dissolve boundaries.” Kristen
19.00 Sexuality, Races, Countries in the dissolution of boundaries
21.00 The illusion of boundaries
23.20 “Love is a dissolving of boundaries.” Kristen
26.00 NIVAR TATVAM: go where you are not. Make boundaries of dissolve them based on where you are at a time
27.00 There is no right or wrong – what is right for who at what time.
35.40 The bigger YES
“You are not saying no, you are saying yes to something else.” Isabel